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2020.09.23 18:37 unimportantstranger I have been seeing this guy and I don’t understand what is happening?

I met this guy online dating but I was visiting my school at the time and we continued talking while I was out of state. We would FaceTime every night for hours on end and I never connected with someone like this before. I really thought something special was happening and we hung out everyday the first week I got back to school. (He lives an hour away)He met all of my friends everybody loved him and then after he had asked me to stay over and even wanted me to hang out longer but I had to go home. Then I get a text saying he needs to keep things casual and won’t be ready for anything more then that for months. I was just going with the flow of the situation but I was so hurt and blindsided. He had a dream about his ex when I stayed over and isn’t over her. He wanted to continue because he really likes me and wish he didn’t have these feelings for her, I gave it a week and decided I wanted to try to keep things casual (I missed him a lot) and wasn’t sure if I even would want a relationship now anyway. He ended up hitting me up the other night and ubered here and opened up to me emotionally about issues that happened that night and all this stuff. Doesn’t seem casual at all. He is also now “friends” with his ex. Now he wants to come over again because he just happened to leave his stuff here again. What do I say when he comes here, I’m just heart broken and I just wish he felt the same for me. But I don’t get why he wants to keep coming here and thought to come to me when he was upset? I’m just so confused.
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2020.09.23 18:35 ohmygodbubbles I (28F) fucked up my marriage of 3 years

I thought about doing this on a throwaway, but decided I should own this. I shouldn't get to hide anymore.
When my husband (42M) and I met long-distance years ago, we went through a break up pretty early on. I met another person online during our separation, and though not knowing him for a long time decided to drive cross-country to meet him. Right before that drive, I threw a text out to my husband knowing I'd be driving through the state he lived in, asking about the interstate I'd be on. I guess I was still reaching for a connection with him. We got to talking about why I'd be out that way, and at first I lied. I said it was going to be a college visit. When he learned the truth, he begged me not to go. I went anyway, and after our weekend together was ghosted by this other person. I regretted the whole thing on my drive back anyway. My husband was there for me, picked up the pieces, and we moved on.
I moved to my husband's state in the hopes that our relationship would grow. It did. We officially dated for a few years, and everything was sunshine and rainbows. He had been through a divorce, and I supported him and his kids through all of that. I was reliable, he could count on me, and I had his back. We were happy.
A few years after we had been dating, I suggested during one of our "what sort of sexy new thing could we try?" brainstorm sessions that we should try for a threesome. In truth, I did not want that, but I knew he would and I had it in my head that if I faked my way through it, at some point maybe I'd enjoy it and wouldn't have to fake it. We pursued that idea for several months, before I made it come crashing down by revealing my true feelings about it. Meanwhile, I was emotionally withdrawing from him and becoming less reliable. I don't know what happened. I don't want to make excuses for myself, but all I can say is I got stuck in my own head. I became selfish, and didn't care to rock the boat in any way. Even though the threesome idea hadn't worked, I also wasn't initiating sex between the two of us. Again, he talked through it with me and we decided maybe to try more of a swingers lifestyle.
Once again, I was not completely comfortable but thought I was just being nervous about moving outside of my comfort zone. Once I got there, I thought, it would be no big deal and I'd actually be into it. We had met another couple and were each chatting with the husband and wife separately. During that time, anything the other man asked of me I did.
However, my husband had stopped receiving that kind of attention from me in any way. Not just sexually, but around the house and personally. He mentioned he was out of cologne, I said I would get him more, and I didn't. For months. I didn't purposely forget, but it was forgetting nonetheless. He explained how it made him feel unimportant, and I said I'd do better. I didn't do better. I continued to not follow through on things I said I'd do. Just amassed a whole list of shit I never followed through on.
One day, this other man had mentioned he wanted to virtually join me in the bath. I expected a short ordeal, so I agreed. I took a toy in, made videos, showed him everything he asked to see. In the end it was about 3 hours. My stepsons were home. I didn't intend for it to get that out of hand. I feel awful and scummy about it. My husband got angry over the same attention still not being paid to him. He felt cuckolded, and was ready to call the whole affair off. He told me not to talk to this other man about how he was feeling, but I did. I told the other man that my husband was feeling emasculated and didn't think it was going to work out us talking to this couple. I shattered the whole thing.
My husband sees it as I got everything out of the situation, and he got nothing. He's not wrong. I lied to everyone involved, but still got all the fun things. When we fight, which has been very frequent since this incident last year, I withdraw and come up with empty answers. I make things his fault, because I don't want to confront my own shitty behavior. I promise to do better, but I don't. I make up things and conversations in my head, do things that I THINK my husband wants that will prove to him I still love him and I don't think he's worthless, but none of those are the things he's asked me to do.
I can't keep saying I'm sorry. My word is ruined. I don't think he's worthless, I love him more than anything, even though I know this is all evidence to the contrary. Is there anything I can do? At every turn my husband is met with ways I don't appreciate and love him. Can I save this marriage from my own emotional abuse?
TL;DR I have caused irreparable emotional damage to my husband. I have lied about things, not done things he's asked me to do (for years on end), and don't like being confronted about my fuck-ups so I shift blame or sugar coat.
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2020.09.23 18:30 Peridot1708 Question from a confused "probably bi" twenty-something girl: How did you know you were bi?

First of all, happy Bi visibility day to all of you folks 😚💖💜💙..
Second, i have a feeling i might delete this post later because i might get a little personal here and im a little hesitant to do so cause im mostly a very private person. But I'd really like to hear some advice.
So heres a little bit info about myself that might be useful here:
Im a very shy person and i usually keep to myself, i barely have any experience when it comes to romance and dating which probably doesnt help my case in this situation.
I have mostly identified as straight for majority of my life. The one time i was attracted to the same gender was when i was in my pre teen years and i liked a classmate from school, and i knew it wasnt in the "omg shes so cool i wanna be like her" way, it was definitely the "omg shes really pretty and im in awe every time i see her" way. Ofc back then i never bothered to question it and just brushed it off, because not only did i have zero awareness about bisexuality back then, but the words "gay" and "lesbian" itself was treated as a joke, or something gross by kids my age.
Also the communities that Im a part of arent very pro-LGBTQ+.
Most of my friends and I always considered ourselves pro-LGBTQ+ anyway, but i dont think i actually started to educate myself about it until joining certain fandoms online discuss about LGBTQ+ representation and stuff. I also think watching Brooklyn 99, Chasing Amy and The Bisexual definitely helped me to learn more about bi ppl in particular.
So it made me question the stuff i experienced when i was younger. Also some of my friends identify as bi and pan. One of my friends even calls herself "10% gay" though idk if thats a very accurate way of describing it, but to each their own.
At this point, i consider myself to be a 2 on the Kinsey scale (if thats useful). But idk if im actually bi/bi-curious/biromantic het, or just straight all along. Its definitely somewhere in the grey area. Also i know that theres always gonna be someone whos like "You're just doing this for attention" and subconsciously i think i myself think that, though i know that what i felt for that classmate was real.
So what i wanna ask the people on this sub is - how did you know you were bi? What made you come to the realisation that you're bi? How did you navigate your way through it? Is there any advice you have for a person like me in figuring it out?
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks! 💖💜💙
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2020.09.23 18:28 CyrusWaugh Speak Now (2010) All Songs Ranked

It's time for part 3 of Appreciation Week and we've finally enter the Speak Now era of Taylor Swift's career. I can tell online, and from my friends perspectives this is a fan favorite, so when I do my ranking don't get triggered about it, for all I know my opinion could be the exact opposite of yours, which is a good thing, but lets be intellectual about this rather than emotional. This was a weird time imo, the mainstream sound of music was in the R&B party anthem phase, where groups like The Black Eyed Peas and LMFAO thrived, given this new wave, Speak Now definitely felt like the odd one out in terms of sound. Not to mention creeping slowly was the bro era of music, so while I do hold this record to a high regard it feels out of place timeline wise.

14. Better Than Revenge
To sum up my distaste for this track, is pretty simple: I'm not a fan of alternative rock, so this isn't going to be my cup of tea, but still its a fun time, where she takes a jab at Camilla Beller, in a way its a sequel to Forever & Always from the previous record on the Joe Jonas breakup, I can't help but feel awkward listening to this, but keep in mind these are really personal issues for me, there are some who crave this sort of storytelling and instrumental style, the second verse definitely kicks things into high gear for me though when she tries to show their perspective of her, and it is well done, overall I think the song gets a little too repetitive, they could've made the song a little shorter to eliminate that issue.

13. Story Of Us
Pretty similar thoughts here, the style of this music isn't for me. But unlike Better Than Revenge, this song definitely needs to be this length, the progression feels so smooth, and this is why I don't date someone in the same class, sport or job, because if/when you break up it is extremely awkward, and that awkwardness is captured here, there is a lot to like about this song, no I don't hate this song, I just have some problems with it, I'll let you know when we get to the record where there are songs I genuinely dislike. If punk/alternative is your style, then I'd recommend this as a fun middle lane for you.

12. Haunted
That opening with the orchestra is so bombastic, so provocative, I love it, I think my number one issue with this song is that it relies too much on the chorus, and could use more verses given this song is 4 minutes long. From what I've gathered this has to do with guilt of wanting to be with someone you've been cold to. And even though she's with someone new, she can't help be reminded of this person. I think its pretty good in terms of messaging as she takes a hypocritical stance, of leaving someone in a dramatic manner, and overtime want them back to finish what they started. This could've used a better storytelling perspective, but the bombastic production makes it hard to realize that issue, the music builds up so well by the bridge, so instrumentally it is way up there, and it just has the short end of the stick when it comes to the writing.

11. Sparks Fly
I think metaphorically, this is a little disjointed, while I get what she is saying when she compares herself to a house of cards and he's a rainstorm, they are two completely different thing so this could've used a small revision. From what I've heard, this song actually went through several revisions both lyrically and instrumentally, they cut out the banjo to get a more pop-rock sound and from a business sense, I respect the decision, she was getting bigger and bigger and she had to keep up with the times, fiddle, banjo and steel were becoming less prevalent to casual listeners who adored her. So they began experimenting with sounds and melodies, melodically they nailed this but I can tell there was a shift in quality for the writing and instrumentation of this track.

10. Mine
Crucify me for not putting this higher. I think this is the catchiest track on the record. But it really feels formulaic to me, and I'll argue lyrically the last 2 records inspired the modern Nashville writing style, I'm not saying Taylor's done it as bad as they did, she is light years ahead of them, but her style of narrative definitely carried into acts like Thomas Rhett, FGL and Luke Bryan in later years. My favorite lyric is you made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter, production is a little bit of an issue with the multiple vocals going on at the same time, I'm honestly just nitpicking at this point as the rest of the record from here on out is top tier.

9. Speak Now
Speak Now is one of those songs with unique perspectives that I adore. About a girl crashing her love interests wedding, the word play is on a whole other level. Saying all that's wrong with this bride, its all so vivid, from a dress shaped like a pastry, to snotty relatives dressed in pastel. The storytelling flows smoothly, minor lyrical changes work wonders, it may seem so small but it can move mountains in the writing. However this song does make the same Dustin Lynch mistake, by rhyming girl with girl, I must hold a standard for myself as amazing as this song is, that is a no for me. But everything else about the song rules for me,

8. Enchanted
I know I made an issue of too long songs but this and rest of the long tracks are an exception. The beauty of the songs is expressing the message through not just the lyrics but the vocals, about when she met this person who "enchanted" her (idk else how to describe it) and she never saw him again, and the only way this person can realize this song is about him is the word: wonderstruck which apparently was used in one email she received from him, you get all these emotions of franticness to doubt to hope. One of the best bridges in any of her songs. Enchanted captures all this emotion and the length helps express that. It is an exceptional power ballad, telling what could seem like an insignificant story to something so captivating.

7. Back To December
Yes I'm an uncultured swine for not putting this in the top 5. It's her swallowing her pride, rather than giving what I assume to be Taylor Lautner the Joe Jonas treatment she is actually being mature, and this is a prime example of her turning the page from the high school narrative that dominated the last 2 records. And she goes back to December several times, playing it through her mind over and over. How she compares the seasons to her relationship with Lautner, how fall was beautiful and when winter came it turned her cold. I think this doesn't have the right emotion in terms of vocals, this is a pretty small issue for me personally, not really something technical. It's the biggest hit of the record no doubt, and really shows off her maturity from the last record. I love the song regardless of my arguably nonsensical issues.

6. Mean
What can I say, the acoustic work is amazing, I was going to put this at #2 or #1 but I knew I should be objective, also might I add, I always here this song in a cracker barrel, I legit have not been to one that didn't eventually played this song. It is one of the only genuine country songs on this record, she could've easily kept this as an album cut as she kept experimenting more and more with pop sounds, I'm glad this was a single, and it was huge. I'm sure we've all dealt with A-Holes and instead of going low like them, its best to take the moral high ground and be patient, because eventually you'll rise higher than them. I love the way she pronounces pathetic, it may seem small but I find it freaking hilarious. It is my favorite track on the record, and while I recognize the quality of the top 5, I'll probably still play this song more than any of them.

5. Long Live
Long Live is a dedication to her fans and curiosity of where she will go from here, it was the dawn of new decade, music was changing drastically, and the age of jamming to a song with a fiddle like Zac Brown Band, Brad Paisley was fading. Its her appreciating how she's come so far. When she's done making music she hopes people will remember her fondly, and this song didn't really age well as during the Red Era, was probably when she face the most brutal of criticism, for her being too nice, or fake, and she doesn't deserve any of that. Long Live while not holding up to the dreams envisioned is still a great reminder of looking back to what made you what you are which is very empowering.

4. Innocent
If I remember correctly this was written in response to Kanye West ruining what was supposed to be one of the greatest moments of her life. How stardom really can change someone, and as she continues to rise in the music world, she'll try to stay the same, and deep down she's still innocent, now in terms of her, that is not true in the slightest, but in a positive message towards others this is really compelling., and she highlights how flames turn to embers, if you lost your way, its never too late. The buildup to this beautiful ballad is amazing, her vocals are clear, and this ironically is one of the only times she's take the moral high ground when it comes to addressing rumors and insults towards her reputation, because later on she would get ridiculous and bombastic but we'll get there soon ;)

3. Last Kiss
I think this is either the last or one of the last songs directed at Joe Jonas, and unlike the last 3 they aren't centered around bitterness, this is just sincere and regretful, its a snow globe of brief happy moments with hints of neglect. She just misses him after all the songs saying how terrible he was or his new girl was. Vocally it is heartbreaking, and yet feels like a mature satisfying ending, not really a happy ending for both of them, but she realizes this is for the best, she was beating a dead horse at this point and its good putting this drama on a shelf. No more, forever and always, no more better than revenge, just moving on which was the right thing to do as she went on to better places. Another case in point of her taking the moral high ground rather than the fun sassiness I love to see.

2. Dear John
This track is nearly 7 minutes long, the longest out of any track in her discography , I could fit two songs in here, that's crazy. Now this may or may not be about John Mayer, no one really knows for sure, so I'm not really going to use that as context, its really about dating someone who emotionally neglects you, trying to be with this person. but they always make it worse as she describes he makes sunny skies but shortly makes them rain, and she tries to play his game but he always changes the rules, the wordplay is arguably the peak for this record. How this person is an expert at sorry and keeps the lines blurred, whenever Taylor isn't bitter, she reaches a state of writing so good yet rarely seen. I feel like people might put this one lower because of its outrageous length and might skip it, but for me this song is unskippable, every moment is so captivating, and if you're anything like me seek this song out, it is some of the best she has to offer.

1. Never Grow Up
I love Never Grow Up for a lot of reasons, its simplicity, its stripped back production, whenever its just her and a guitar, I know its an instant classic. It brings up the fact most people when they're little take their childhood for granted, we all have a bombastic dream like run for president, or an astronaut, and we can't wait to grow up, but growing up we realize those years was the time to be alive, where at least I had more freedom and now I'm entering the cold brutal world. And the overuse of the word Up may turn you off this track, but I find it secretly brilliant, this is the best vocal track out of the entire record. How money and fame is a lot and everyone wants it, she expresses everything truly important to her will be gone one day, which is her family, they are more important than anything which is a wholesome value everyone should have.

So those are my thoughts on Speak Now, how would you rank them, and now we get into bubblegum pop country phase of her career with her 2012 record Red.
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2020.09.23 18:28 Smothdude [US] Looking for Players, Ideally a Safe Lane Carry

Hi there, I've been a DotA player for many years now but never took the game too seriously, therefore my account has been at a relatively low MMR for a long time. I recently have started putting in effort learning all the nuances and staying up to date with the meta that I am currently doing pretty well when playing with a couple of my friends. Sometimes however, a friend or two isn't online and I don't trust the match making to give me a ton of good teammates! I'm currently at 2k mmr and crusader4 but the game has detected me as a smurf and I am gaining about 50% or more to a medal per win. I play in middle, a good friend plays support (wards well and pulls, knows how to babysit), and another likes to play offlane to shut down carries. The offlane player is often not able to be on so to have someone to play with my support friend in safe lane would be perfect!
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2020.09.23 18:27 Psychological-Laugh1 Child Support Question

I was wondering if anyone have any insight on my and SO's situation with child support. I know that asking a lawyer would be better, but just curious on y'all's insight. Here's the situation: My SO pays BM child support as she is custodial parent. SO is obligated to pay child support "until child is 18 years old or should have graduated high school, whichever comes last." SK is now 17. Based on the divorce, SO stops paying child support to BM after SK graduates.
Now, here is where things get complicated: BM had moved to a different state last year with SK. She never registered SK for school. Even when COVID happened, SK is not enrolled online. SK has no desire to go back to finish high school. Other than that, earlier in the summer, SK decided that he didn't like staying at the other state and wanted to move back. SK decided to stay with SO's parents since they have the extra room, and didn't want to stay in the same room with his sibling that is staying with us. SK has now been with my in-laws for about 2 months now, and we're still paying child support to BM. We would give SK allowance money every week, but not much since we don't really have extra money. However, SK occasionally would ask us for money to borrow to help with getting a car and some gas money. but sometimes we just can't afford to because of other obligations. SK is a good kid, we just don't have the means to help him whenever he needs it.
Y'all. I don't know why my SO has not done a child support modification. I think that in his mind, that we only have to put up with it a couple more months and going through lawyers and stuff would be expensive. But, my main question is, do y'all think that SO can stop paying child support after SK turns 18 because SK is no longer in school, or should SO pay until after the date SK is supposed to graduate? What do y'all think?
Thank you for reading and providing your insights, and thank your kindness
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2020.09.23 18:25 Poshpoder113 Everything is crap [Rant]

I go to an all boys Anglican school and tbh it's pretty crap. We have no gsa (and apparently no intention of getting one). And of 1500 students across all ages, there are 6 queer ones (including myself). And of course the one I'm interested in straight up told me he "isn't into me". I just feel so trapped in this little bubble I can't escape and have so few people around who can relate to me.
And then there's dating. I don't date closeted guys because I'm out and having to hide a relationship is too much effort. And online dating just doesn't work either (I need to have a face to face conversations and physical intimacy).
I'm tired. I've been openly gay since February 2019. I've taken so much bs and gotten nothing in compensation. I push so hard for universal acceptance in my classes alone. I try so hard to teach people how to behave in regards to us. I don't even know why I'm writing this. You guys can't do much in the way of making change in my little corner of the world. I'm waiting for more people to come out. And LGBTQ+ education as well. I just don't won't people to go through everything I've gone through.
I'm struggling a bit clearly. My heart goes out to those who have it harder than I. My trans friends, people in small towns, y'all who attend Catholic schools. Pan people, nb. Queer people of colour. Anyone who doesn't deserve it.
Thanks I guess...
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2020.09.23 18:22 ohwelliguessnot 20 Guest $10K Pennsylvania Wedding Recap

Hello! I’m still riding the wonderful wave that was our wedding weekend and thought I’d write up a breakdown to show what might be involved with a Plan B (B for bonus!). Our wedding was originally planned for May, Postponed until 9/19/2020, then the big wedding was postponed again until 9/18/2021. Our original plan is a big resort, ballroom, big brass band, 180 guests with a budget of $50k. Our all-in wedding budget is definitely in our rearview mirrors, but it was important to us to have a “plan B” small wedding this year. We didn’t set a budget for this small wedding, we sort of just worked with what we could and made the most of what we already had. Below I'll make note of costs for things that won't be repeated and were purchased with the original wedding in mind.
We had 20 guests attend, plus the two of us. We had nearly everyone get tested for covid-19 prior to the weekend and every event was held outdoors. Every guest was encouraged to quarantine both prior and post the event. We reached a level of risk that we were all comfortable with. The property had a large barn on premises that would work for a covered area if there was inclement weather that would still allow for social distancing and open air- but thankfully we had beautiful weather all weekend.
Venue: $2,800
Catering: $Unknown. So many people helped out here that it’s impossible to even estimate the total cost of ingredients/purchases.
Cake: Baked and decorated by Bride’s Aunt as gift
Photography: $2,200
DJ: Spotify playlist - It was AWESOME. We had two playlists, one for more casual/eating and another party dance playlist. We have two pairing bluetooth speakers that KILLED it that were a gift from the registry.
Ceremony Music (Cello): $700 - After our first postponement we lost the original reception band that we booked for May due to a scheduling complication, they let us redirect our deposit to ceremony music. She was fantastic and even stayed to play for about an hour following the ceremony.
Alcohol: $Unknown
Flowers: $250 (Wholesale online)
Dress: $350
Groom's Attire: $1,200
Alterations: $0
Hair & Makeup: $150 Hair done with no trial and stylist was found one week before the wedding. When our original wedding at the resort nearby was postponed, they cancelled the wedding block, which cancelled all associated wedding rooms, which also cancelled the attached resort salon appointment I had for my wedding hair. I didn’t realize that mistake until ~2 weeks beforehand. Makeup done by Bride.
Event Rentals: $50
Wedding Rings: ~$1,500
Officiant: ~$1,000
DécoSignage: $0
Stationary: $0
Bridal Accessories: $100
TOTAL: $10,300 Technically any amount spent towards this event was “overbudget” since we hadn’t planned on having a small wedding in addition to our originally planned party and thus never set a budget. This weekend was beautiful and we wouldn’t change a thing. We had a marvelous time and it was truly special. Some of these costs won't be repeated for next year's party, since we'll be using the same items (tux, shoes, rings, etc). If we could go back would we have planned this wedding from the start, instead of the big 50k party that we’re now bound to through deposits? We would definitely have given it more consideration, but at the end of the day- no. It’s important to us to not just have the beautiful, sentimental, special moments- but also to celebrate with all of our friends and families. We’re hopeful that by fall of 2021 we can celebrate sensibly. We really feel like we're getting the best of both worlds.
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2020.09.23 18:16 UltraPlasma I’m (15/m) currently having my first date in my life. I need help with first dating advice at the same time, online dating advice.

To describe my relationship, we met on a discord channel of a certain social game (sky cotl check it out very cool) because my friends who were friends of friends who knew other friends and more. We both somehow “date in-game” (going to places and exploring) and also talk about our daily lives (we already have video called and etc.) and how we feel and console each other for help and support or just vibe to music and chat. So far, it’s going real fine for almost a month. We don’t fight and we have a lot of common interests in music, art, and school (we aren’t that far in age gap and I’m younger). Though recently, I’m having doubts whether our relationship is fine for both of us since online is kinda hard, and I don’t like my first date to be such a waste, thus I would like to know ways to improve our dating experience limited to not seeing each other in real life (different countries). We haven’t tried calling regularly but I don’t know how to start cool and fine convos and keep doing convos after numerous online dates. To summarise, I need help in first dating, at the same time it only being online. Should I call regularly or not so often? Keep chatting? How can I spice things up and show my love for her better? How can I make her happier? Do I be honest with all I want to say or?
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2020.09.23 18:15 somebodyenjoy How long before I ask to voice chat/call on the phone

As we all know it's not exactly easy for an average looking guy to text women on online dating apps, I usually manage to get their insta id but have no clue how to move on from there. How long should I wait before asking for a voice call or a date? Is there any inputs you guys and girls can give from your experience?
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2020.09.23 18:15 FlamingTaco967 My school sucks

My school just changed all the due dates for every assignment we have in online school. And now I’m 2 weeks behind on assignments and have Fs in every class. And my school expects us to complete 2 weeks worth of assignments TODAY.
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2020.09.23 18:11 veniceinperil50 What do you do about the long-term nightmares if complete no contact is impossible?

I've been away from my narcissist for most of my adult life. But, he's someone who pops up in the news, occasionally, so there's no such thing as complete no contact, for me. I'm still having the kinds of nightmares that wreck me emotionally, the next day.
Part of the problem, is that he kept hoovering me for several years after the fact. He's never entirely left me alone.
I've done counseling, years of it. The thing that triggers me the most, is that what ends up in the news feeds is whoever he's dating, now. And then I get triggered by the fact that he's got a new victim. He's known enough for abusing women, that he's practically defiant about the fact that he got someone to date him. If he follows the usual pattern, in several years, she'll be talking to the media about what an abuser he is. I really don't want to watch. The only way not to is to avoid online news and social media for my entire life.
What do you do? Years of separation and therapy have not been enough.
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2020.09.23 18:10 Errorwrongpassword How do you date in a ethical way?

I feel worried about dating because reading online about womens experiences with it like getting raped, murdered, harassed. And when not dating there's like getting asked out in stores when you just wanna buy food, at library, bar, gym and so on. And then they get asked out online. "the fact that I'm still attracted to men is proof that sexuality isn't a choice". Men are just so gross against women. And i'm a man, or at least a boy. I worry if i ever start dating i'll accidentally harass or creep out a woman, kissing is so scary it looks nice but what if you do it wrong and you become a creep? I can talk with women just fine as friends like i talk with men but i cannot be romantic i really don't know how to flirt or be romantic at all. I feel i'm just gonna be another faceless man harassing women by being attracted to women.
I kinda want to hug, cuddle, kiss and hold hands, and do hobbies together, and learn about each other.
Then there's the fact that hurts my dating prospects is that i have been a NEET for 3 years, not because i want to! I wanna study and learn things but no school wants me. I hope the military will be fun when corona is over, so i can become a man and learn some fun and interesting things.
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2020.09.23 18:08 LawfulnessTerrible58 Problems with my dad

Hey so this is gonna be a bit of a long one, sorry. I’ve been told different things by many different people and I just wanted some outside opinions on this. Just to preface this I’m currently 17 years old and turn 18 in November
So while working on English homework, my dad came into my room asking why I had a zero in my AP Bio class, which I had attempted to tell him about the night before, he quickly asked me why and I responded with how the teacher didn’t have it printed the day she assigned it and only gave it to us after it was due online, after he left I went back to work. He then returned a little bit later asking why I had 2 other late assignments in the same class while yelling. Trying to respond I began to become a little hysterical from the yelling, trying to tell him with the little time I had between his yelling, the first one being late due to not even knowing the due date and the second being her telling us when it was due but then actually making it due a week earlier online. After telling him she didn’t tell us the due date and how on focus (our online portal to see grades) it even was due the same day as assigned having no time to do it even though she said she’d give us multiple days in class he slammed the computer shut while in my lap with his fists, breaking the laptop. After leaving and coming back I began to raise my voice in response to him saying all we have to do is keep up with grades and we’re under no stress at all, I brought up the divorce and all the things we have to go through. The whole while he had a smug look and repeated, “are you done yet? You still talking?” Non stop. After cursing at him he jumped up and pinned me to the bed by putting his hand around my throat. After I pushed him off of me he ripped everything off of my bed including my books and the laptop he told me to stand up and get out of his house while spitting and putting his hands in my face. At this point my hands were trembling and I was having trouble breathing from anxiety to the point I had to calm down and take a few breaths each time I wanted to speak. He left the room and came back, by now I had gotten the laptop to work and pulled up my focus, he was still yelling at this point but when I was finally able to talk and explain what had happened he calmed down and listened to me but still in disbelief that a teacher could be wrong in this situation and how it’s written in black in white on focus that it was late. Only after I emailed my teacher and my guidance councilor for a class change did he begin to believe me and begin to act all buddy-buddy like nothing happened demanding I get out of the class. He left and came back crying saying how it’s upsetting to him that he isn’t married to my mom and makes us go through this stuff.
This is not the first time something like this has happened though, the last time I had a late assignment, 2 years ago in my sophomore year, he threatened to put my head through a wall. As well as many other instances that happened with my two sisters such as slamming food in my older ones face and pushing her into her room, slamming into the wall in front of my mom when they were still married.
He only does these things when he thinks he’s alone or when my step mom isn’t home. He used to be an alcoholic and even got fired from being a detective by causing a hit and run while drunk in his police car and tried to call the car in as stolen a few years ago.
I’m not asking for money or anything, I just want to know the opinions of you guys and what you think, I told my mom who in turn told my principal to try to get me out of the class only to go to DCF and get an investigation started and I don’t know if I should feel bad or not about the whole situation because now all my step siblings and dad seem to be extremely mad at me and are telling me I did the wrong thing by being a rat.
Thanks a lot.
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2020.09.23 18:06 Michael6184 How does she feel?

So I (M18) met a girl on an online dating site (F17). Weve been talking for about 2 months and it definitely looks like she likes me, then I stopped texting because I wasn't sure what I wanted. I texted her like 3 months later and explained why I didnt text her. She was understanding and said she was really busy too so that a relationship was kinda hard to incorporate. So weve been talking for some weeks and I asked her if she wanted to do a long distance relationship. She was sorta surprised but said yes. This is my first relationship and Im no expert. I do show signs of insecurity and can sometimes ask questions like "why didn't you text" or "where are you"? Shes tolad me about her mental health issues and stuff so I see that she trusts and confides in me. Ive been telling her for a while that she shouldn't be scared to text me first because she rarely does text me first. I keep on asking if she actually likes me and she says yes. So im like ok, then I asked her again why she doesnt text first and she was more confused and like wtf. So now she doesnt reply for a while but were still together? I'm not really sure what shes feeling and if shes just cooling off or something. We have a very open relationship and share our thoughts on it and how its going.I know shes online but she doesn't reply till very late. Im just trying to know if she still likes me or is trying to be with me, because I still call her baby and she still texts the hearts n stuff, and hasn't said anything about breaking up or being upset despite our relationship and feelings being open with each other. Im kinda feeling confused and stressed out now...
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2020.09.23 18:05 Michael6184 How does she feel?

So I (M18) met a girl on an online dating site (F17). Weve been talking for about 2 months and it definitely looks like she likes me, then I stopped texting because I wasn't sure what I wanted. I texted her like 3 months later and explained why I didnt text her. She was understanding and said she was really busy too so that a relationship was kinda hard to incorporate. So weve been talking for some weeks and I asked her if she wanted to do a long distance relationship. She was sorta surprised but said yes. This is my first relationship and Im no expert. I do show signs of insecurity and can sometimes ask questions like "why didn't you text" or "where are you"? Shes tolad me about her mental health issues and stuff so I see that she trusts and confides in me. Ive been telling her for a while that she shouldn't be scared to text me first because she rarely does text me first. I keep on asking if she actually likes me and she says yes. So im like ok, then I asked her again why she doesnt text first and she was more confused and like wtf. So now she doesnt reply for a while but were still together? I'm not really sure what shes feeling and if shes just cooling off or something. We have a very open relationship and share our thoughts on it and how its going.I know shes online but she doesn't reply till very late. Im just trying to know if she still likes me or is trying to be with me, because I still call her baby and she still texts the hearts n stuff, and hasn't said anything about breaking up or being upset despite our relationship and feelings being open with each other. Im kinda feeling confused and stressed out now...
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2020.09.23 18:04 Fookitt Conflicting feelings about response to a comment I made

So... I kind of just assume majority of people between 25-45 know what “ child-free” means... I get that it could be confusing to some. Some people get childless and child-free confused. I put “ I’m child-free” in an online dating bio. And I still get people try to message me and then later tell me they have a child and completely wasted my time. I guess I need to be more direct on my profile? I just thought putting “ I don’t want kid, I don’t want someone who has kids, and I don’t want to do activities outside work that involve kids. I love children, I just don’t want any of my own, I don’t want to hear annoying wining and crying, etc” like that’s a lot to explain. I always thought Saying I’m child-free was just a simple way to put it and of course if someone asked I’d go into detail... but I got a lot of negative comments from people. One saying “ 10 out of 10 people wouldn’t understand what you mean by child-free” and I don’t really think that’s true... at least I hope not! Lol if that is true... I wish the statement “ child-free” would be one more well known... it would make things easier. As well as if people could just break the stigma behind being child-free too. That would be nice. Because I work with kids and I love my job. We’re not monsters. We just like a child free lifestyle and there’s nothing wrong with that.
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2020.09.23 17:53 Infamous_Tap638 Looking for advice! I've (NT) recently started dating someone on the spectrum and dont know much about it

Since we started dating I've been researching and joined forums but tbh I didnt know barely anything when he told me he was on the spectrum. I would like a bit of advice on how to make him comfortable and to understand him a bit more.
We've mostly dated online, meeting through friends, but it's the in person stuff hes the most uncomfortable about but he said he wants to when covid allows. He said he has trouble interacting with people his age and eye contact is an issue for him so I'm just wondering the best way to behave so hes comfortable and I dont stress him out in person?
Any advice about anything would be greatly appreciated!
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2020.09.23 17:48 GlazeMyHole Coming out as Bi/Pan to my girlfriend

(Quick note, I apologise for my name, this is my jokey porn reddit account. Also TW: Grooming)
I'm 23 (m) and have known about my sexuality for well over a decade now. When I was younger I was incredibly confused, finding myself attracted to both guys and girls, even today I've found it frustrating and I've only ever told one friend of mine. I've been in a straight relationship for just over 4 years now and because of that, I've never really felt the need to come out to anyone and keep my identity as a straight guy the main narrative. I've never dated anyone of the same sex, although I had a sexual encounter with someone in my mid teens, have kissed several guys and was at one point groomed by an older guy online when I was underage. I'm incredibly happy in my straight relationship at the moment both mentally and sexually, but I feel like I'm lying too myself and my partner. I have a feminine side which I would love to show more of (I enjoy dressing up and make-up) and I feel as if I owe it too her to be myself.
My main issue I have is, it's been so long, and I've doubled down on being straight for the last few years. I don't want to unsteady the relationship by randomly admitting that I'm bi. My identity crisis runs deeper, however. My group of friends all consider me straight, I feel strange letting people know of my sexuality orientation, that I like both guys and girls, as a pretty straight acting and looking dude I feel weird admitting that I am sexually attracted to both. My friends aren't homophobic but they might start treating me differently? Sorry for the rant, I'm just not sure what to do.
Tl;dr I'm a confused bi guy who has never come out, trying to come out to my girlfriend.
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